As a child, people did not talk openly about cancer, never mind breast cancer.
At five, my grandmother died. It was one of the only times in my life I remember
my mom crying. When I was 22, my mom died. I cried. People still did not want to
talk about it. They both died at 50 from breast cancer.
In Cup Half Full: Life in the face of breast cancer, it is our hope and our prayer
that what you see is the human spirit shining through the disease; that the spirit
of those courageous enough to participate in this book is an inspiration. Comfort
comes in knowing that we are not alone. It comes from being seen in our raw
nakedness, with no hair on our head or on our body, and our loved ones are still
willing to see us for who we are, not what we look like.
The photographs invite you to see life. All life. As you look at the faces, the
relationships, the bodies, the scars, the expressions... I believe you will see
yourself, or someone you know, reflected back to you.
Young and old, women and men, African American, Asian, Caucasian, Indian,
Israeli, Latino, Native American…breast cancer does not discriminate.
When you read the words, you may feel they could be your own. Words you
would say. Each of us has a story. This story is everyone’s story, everyone with
breast cancer, everyone living and everyone who has died—everyone in the
world. We are one.
The photos in Cup Half Full span as many as 20 years. A unique quality of this
book is that some of the people seen here were photographed before they had
breast cancer, as well as during and after. You can see people who are in the
midst of treatment and years later. As a photographer for over 35 years, it is a
profound experience documenting people’s life stories. I am always humbled
when I review the photos I have made of people over time and see the subtle,
and not so subtle, changes.
With all the technology we have available to us now, I still love sitting down with
a book of photos. Each photo contains a multitude of stories and holds a piece
of history, a moment in time, a part of our legacy. I always tell people, even when
they are in the midst of a challenge such as breast cancer and don’t feel good
about how they look…at least have the photo made. One day, you may look back
and say, “Wow, if I could make it through that, I can make it through anything.”
And maybe, just maybe, you, or someone you know, may look at the photograph
and say, “You are stunning! “